My hope is to offer encouragement to writers as well as those who simply love to read. You will find eclectic snippets here—news of projects I’m working on, comments regarding books I enjoy, favorite authors, quotes, and reflections regarding my own experiences. I especially like to write about my dreams—those parables in the night seasons. Symbols and metaphors delight and intrigue me. You will find them here.
He couldn't get out. I saw him sitting in the window sill as I walked to my car in the parking garage. He sat waiting, exhausted. From the bird's viewpoint, I'm sure it seemed to him that if he only tried a little harder he could take flight into the silvery sunlit day. But the clear pane of glass wouldn't permit him. I could tell when I saw him that he'd been trying for a while to flee. I drew close to him and could see the fine lines of black and white etched on his feathers, almost as if someone had painted them on with ink. His head feathers were ruffled, I think, from all his exertion. He sensed my nearness, the anxiety to get away from me causing him to make more attempts at flying through the towering window. When he raised his wings, I could see the loveliest shade of yellow on the sides of his body, the color of lemons.
It all started with the plum-colored dress--handsewn with hundreds of minute purple beads and sequins that glittered in the light. When I wore the floor-length gown, I thought I looked good in it, but when I saw pictures of myself wearing the dress, I felt disappointed and self-conscious. The photos indicated I'd gained a significant amount of weight. I knew I'd gained weight over the last two years--in fact weighed more than at nine months pregnant with one of my children. And now I saw the reality--in a living shade the color of wine.
And so I stepped out of contemplating that it would be a good idea to lose weight, and moved toward action--toward the grocery store. I told my husband I couldn't stand the extra weight anymore and decided to do something about it. He didn't say much, but helped me unload more vegetables, lean meats, fruit and nuts when I returned from Harris Teeter.
Two days later Giovanni and I are facing each other at the dinner table. In an attempt to support me on the new eating plan, he grilled chicken that I cut up over fresh greens. I am happily eating when the explosion happens.
I teach a class once a month at a local detention center. There is a group of women in a drug and alcohol program at the jail, and my class focuses on ways to reduce harm as it regards managing the disease of addiction. We talk a lot about coping skills--safe ways to manage anxiety and loneliness and anger.
Often to get the ball rolling, I bring an activity for the women to participate in. For this session I said, "Now imagine you're going on a very important and much-anticipated trip. You can only take three pieces of clothing, and a coat. You already own a nice pair of leather shoes. What would you choose to take and describe your coat?" The small room began to buzz with their imaginings. What woman does not like clothes? And these women do like to imagine themselves in prettier, nicer clothing, because they are outfitted in the same uniform--dingy gray and black striped prison wear, their shoes cheap plastic open-toed slides. Sometimes seeing their bare feet in those shoes fills me with sadness--big toes with chipped polish and heels toughened and black. Almost none of them wear socks, and their feet look cold. A thin-stick woman with haunting blue eyes breaks me from my reverie and says she would take black pants, a black top and a lime-green scarf--her coat heavy with a detachable hood and zip out lining. "I don't know where I'll be going, so I'll be prepared for any kind of weather."
It is almost Christmas, and I've created a quiet space here in my study to write. It is raining outside. A candle burns. I'm drinking Hazelnut coffee. I have time to reflect on the year almost gone. I look ahead to the year that waits. And I have a longing to encourage you, dear reader of these blog posts. Thank you for visiting my page.
Life is imperfect. Many of you have soldiered through agonies and sorrows that I cannot know. I pray God would screen your sorrows and fears--strain them out so thoroughly that all that remains is pure, clear life--hope for the future and the consolation that God is for you--confident that you are loved by Him.
Some of you have encountered great blessing, a year of accomplishment and productivity--new beginnings. May you continue to experience God's favor and success--mental poise a constant--wisdom overflowing as you tackle new projects.
I am unmoored easily--drifting off into melancholy waters almost effortlessly. Mired in the sticks. I am improving, though, in extricating my vessel and rowing away from those dim shores. And that is accomplished so often by changing my mind. What am I emphasizing in my life: What's wrong? What's not been done? The what ifs? I'd surely be happier if this or that was different. If that person would just change their stupid ways. I know better than to get stuck in this opaque sea. I have the power to think differently. And so I asked, "What's making me happy?"