My hope is to offer encouragement to writers as well as those who simply love to read. You will find eclectic snippets here—news of projects I’m working on, comments regarding books I enjoy, favorite authors, quotes, and reflections regarding my own experiences. I especially like to write about my dreams—those parables in the night seasons. Symbols and metaphors delight and intrigue me. You will find them here.
I woke up with a feeling of heaviness. Somewhere in a shadowy place I might have dreamed of elephants. Was this the heaviness? Random images barreled through my thoughts like a runaway freight train. I remembered my friend from sixth grade--sitting in the limbs of the tree in her backyard; I dreaded that I had a lot to do. I looked at the book on my bedside table. I read a few chapters before I went to bed, but for the life of me I couldn't remember what I'd read. I had guests. I needed to get up. I felt tired. Before I placed my feet on the hardwood floor, I was decimated with too many thoughts. And most of them were negative.
The call came early Monday morning. My colleague had suffered a stroke, so stated his wife. And then another problem--a heart problem--surgery needed. "But he's too weak after the stroke to undergo surgery, so we'll have to wait for several weeks." I felt devastated. Carl and I have worked together for over 15 years. He is the "Frick" to my "Frack" (of NPR's "Car Talk"). He can tell what kind of day I'm having by the sound of my clicking pumps in the hallway. I know what all his nonverbals mean. We are like brother and sister. I was freefalling without him.
We sat across the table from one another. I brought a gala apple to share on the day of my sixtieth birthday. I was happy to be with my three-year-old granddaughter. Her parents were out to celebrate their wedding anniversary and took Lilly's baby brother, Jonathan. He would need to nurse frequently, so it was just us. We felt the closeness of our compainionship, and Lilly said it best in her articulate fashion: "Minou (my grandmotherly title), we get to be alone together."
"Live in the sunshine. Swim the sea. Drink the wild air."~Ralph Waldo Emerson
The night before the trip I got a call from the airline. The generic female voice said in a robotic tone, "We're sorry for the inconvenience, but your flight has been cancelled. We have scheduled you for the next day."
I'd made travel plans months ago--a reunion with my three sisters. I felt disappointed to lose twenty-four hours with them. The trip was only four days long anyway. The airline gave no explanation. Just cancelled. I waited for an hour to talk to a service representative. There were no other flights out. I began to form a coil inside my chest and felt the clinch of anxiety. I didn't like having my plans collapse.
Yet I had an unplanned day before me. I didn't have to go into the office. I was already packed. That coiled place around my heart began to unfurl, and I made a decision to head for the beach.
The little town sits nestled just outside of Charleston, and has been called some derogatory names--"redneck" the most prominent and negative. Yet through now more than five years, I've kept this town tied to me--just a slender thread.
I'd moved to the southern suburb with my first husband, built a new house and hoped for a happy life. But that plan did not last and instead of making a dream life, we got divorced, and the big new house got sold. But eventually I did buy a humble blue-sided house in a quiet neighborhood. The blue was not really that attractive. Think Maybelline eye shadow or the blue of those country colors so popular in the eighties. But I painted the door a darker shade of blue to create contrast and placed colorful wreaths on the door that I changed in and out with the four seasons I could afford the mortgage. I decorated the inside to my taste. I went to work every day in downtown Charleston. I visited the lovely, small-town library every week. I kept the yard neat and tidy. I found a new hair dresser. I got a dog.